The story of the princess and the ring of love is about finding that love that fits your standard and lives up to your expectation.
Whatever that might be.
Category: Marriage
A love spell
My vision when it comes to men is dark as days and I will tell you why.
They told me lies for their own sake.
Put blame on my shoulder, to avoid taking their responsibility.
Named me names and spread them for people to hear someone I wasn’t.
Went behind my back with another girl or tried to be with me while they were already involved.
Used me as a shield for their own protection.
Making me feel worthless by the words they used.
Touched me at places without my consent.
Walked away with my pride, to tell other people how great they were.
Then smiled at me, like nothing ever happened.
One punched me in the face, but I have to say he was gay.
The other thought it was ok to harass me, because he didn’t get his way.
Is love to meet halfway?
What I try to say with meeting halfway is to be aware that we don’t have to take things for granted as such. Don’t have to lower our standards for the sake of a relationship, marriage, someone else or even for ourselves.
That is not the point of meeting halfway.
To me meeting halfway is that yes, sometimes things can be a bit out of control and we don’t know exactly what is happening.
I guess that is the road that we should be taking. A path to follow. For us to know we would be meeting that significant other halfway of wherever we are going.
To know, it will happen someday in the future.
Pieces of love
But above all, expressing these pieces I see happening, writing it down, processing it for my mind to understand.
It is a way for me to continue on this road of love.
To see where this all is leading to.
Since that is the real journey.
Not knowing where you are going to, but to follow what we see and feel that is coming from inside.
What is a succesfull love relationship?
Just to say that a successful relationship is not a fulfillment when we reach that kind of destination.
Having children or being married. Just as examples.
I still believe this is outdated, perhaps even an outdated mindset.
To say that these examples can be a block of love for the ones out there looking for any kind of commitment.
We find love when we settle and find home
‘Let me be your lover’, was appropriate to think.
And I felt it.
So, then I didn’t understand that at one point he came in with her.
His wife now and mother of his child.
I don’t know if he will have more with her.
But ok, I didn’t speak to him for a few months when they came in together.
I understand things can happen.
However, I was surprised.
Nonetheless.
The tools of love
Something is happening.
And I find it hard to express.
I have been on this road before and I have said things then also.
Is this a mindfuck of what I am thinking?
I can see my thoughts and everything that comes with it.
However, nothing really happens.
I think that is for the better.
And then my life continues again.
Is a Secret Love worth it?
An expression of love in a men’s world
The most important thing is that men just sometimes need to go on their own, for them to come back home.
Because when they are out on the go, it is where they find where they belong.
The reach to find that love partner
It was something that he mentioned.
That opened my ears.
He said that he could predict who we were going to get married to.
I was intrigued, perhaps just a little interested.
To keep that distance.
For me to find my own answer.
Not getting influenced by his words.
Being safe in my own time and space.
And so I listened.
To what he had to say about that.