boundaries - The Love Journey of Lakshmi

Love happens when we keep our legs closed

Posted on 19/03/202519/03/2025 by Lakshmi

The starting point of all of this is, with advice one of these women was seeking.

I don’t know anymore if it was for herself, that she was on the go to find her answer why this happened to her.
Or to get a clearer view on how to help these kinds of women.

She went to a guy that was giving spiritual advice.
He was wearing a mask.

I thought it was odd, but when it comes to spirituality it is supposed to be like that.
To prevent people thinking it is a person who is saying it and the words come from them directly.

A way to make sure that message comes across, to not lose its power and have it spread as it should.

From this spiritual entity.
Some guy wearing a mask.

He answered fast, like he forgot to breathe or something.
It made me aware of those words to keep them stored where they should.
When this woman asked what this advice would be for those women out there.

He said : ‘Keep your legs closed’.

His words were cut short and they felt sharp.

It could make you angry if you didn’t understand it was spiritual.

It was those words that stayed with me, throughout my journey ever since I heard them.

Love is an open ending

Posted on 08/10/202414/10/2024 by Lakshmi

What I try to say is that we can do things differently regardless.

Built up in time and space.
To find what makes our heart thick, to see what makes us stronger from the inside and believe in what we didn’t even imagine was there.

And that sounds like love to me.

It is not the knowing of getting involved, starting a relationship or that we get our heart broken. However, it can all happen and is all a possibility.

But the essence of all of this is that we are on the go for something that we would never expect.

Doesn’t that sound lovely?
I think so at least.

It is becoming a quest, perhaps one with an opening ending.
Where the beat goes on and on.
An upward spiral where we just keep on going.

A source to live from, to find out, we are loved and accepted for who we are.

Love starts with making the right decision

Posted on 23/03/202423/03/2024 by Lakshmi

Where I make the decision if that dating app is a ground to find that someone that is good for my heart.

I guess another boundaries I am putting.

Where I have the experience that I remain believing in love.
And if it isn’t that, a commitment where I can keep believing in myself.

It matters that you love yourself

Posted on 02/03/202402/03/2024 by Lakshmi

Although I might not know who I am.

I know I am Lakshmi.

Finding the way of engagement

Posted on 29/01/202429/01/2024 by Lakshmi

A tool to make you become who you are, by engaging the right way.

A new way of setting boundaries, without actually saying no, but just to keep silent.
As an example.

Because you are engaging with yourself.

Understanding who you are talking to or what you are doing.
Who you are spending your time with.

And then perhaps after that there are more people that will follow you on that social platform.

Sounds great to me.

Love expectations

Posted on 09/01/202413/07/2024 by Lakshmi

A light in the darkness, where I can not hide.
Lifting me up, where I can not do it myself.

Positivity where I feel energized.
Or can charge.

A place where we can meet in space and time.
In quantity and quality.

A hug, or just a kiss on the cheek.
Understanding when I am weak.

Learning and growing from each other.
Even when we don’t know how to do that.

To not go over each other boundaries.
Or at least listening to what the other has to say about it.

I guess you can call it emotional support.
To be the other side of the half.

Giving space to be.
Not letting me wait in the rain.

Opening the door, so I can go in.

Perhaps even a baby
One day

Could there be a system where love could live?

Posted on 25/08/202301/09/2023 by Lakshmi

It was something that kept my mind occupied.

And that I couldn’t find the words on how to say or even express it.

So, this is what I normally do whenever something like this happens.

I just sit and let the words speak by themselves. Letting my fingers be the extension of what it is that wants to be said on paper.
That is the space the words would come out right.

But the most important thing for me to do, is not just to sit but find the time that there is nothing else.

No need to finish. No boundary of time.
Just me sitting in a space filled with only that.

Is there a connection between love and coffee?

Posted on 12/06/202306/01/2024 by Lakshmi

I drink coffee.

To take away or just one next to my laptop, when I am writing a story.
At a café or just at home.

But when it comes to coffee, I believe it has a little bit of mystery around it.

I don’t really know how to explain it.
But it is something that happened on several occasions, while I was getting a coffee that started to make me wonder.