The thought I have is to write another love story.
And so I am sitting here.
With no wonder.
The story I have in mind is about a guy that asked me a question.
He was happy it was spring almost summer, he said.
Looking at them girls.
All the girls were wearing their flesh.
Short skirts and shirts that wouldn’t cover much.
Eye candy you can say it is.
For the ones that fall for those types.
And while he was expressing what his eyes were seeing, I could understand what he was saying.
So much to look at, that made his head spin.
Perhaps even staying at the place he was within himself.
And while he was speaking, he was happy to see all that he was seeing.
Shortly after that he expressed that question to me.
That I started this story with.
‘How can I get a girl?’
He asked me.
He said it, like it was nothing.
And although it caught me a bit off guard.
That question he asked.
The question itself made so much sense.
Not just from a boy’s perspective to solve this problem he was having.
Just in general to see all that low hanging fruit that is for some reason unreachable to some.
Although it was there, he was not able to reach it.
That is where he popped that question.
Yes, he did.
Congratulations to him.
Happy Birthday is another way to say that.
Just to say he made it to express what he wanted to say.
But ok, to be serious.
Since it is a serious question.
It made me wonder.
Perhaps even questioning myself.
‘Do we actually know what effect we have on others, by the clothes we are wearing?’
We know that the way we dress can say something.
Whatever it has to be seen at that moment.
And there is no secret.
Politicians wearing specific colors to bring forward their statement.
The gay community wearing all their colors to express what they want to say.
Work uniforms to make notice who is in front of us.
Protective gear to make sure we don’t suffer too much from a fall or anything else that can be a danger to us.
But it was interesting to me, apart from that question he asked.
How he was able to get a girl.
To become aware that the clothes we are wearing apparently do have an effect.
I mean as a society, not just girls wearing skirts in spring or summer.
The standard of exposure was doing something to this boy.
What that is, I can’t say specifically.
Since, I am not the person having this problem.
Just making it notice that this is something that is happening.
A way for this boy to keep looking at these girls, which in a way was making him happy.
Even though he didn’t know how to approach them.
It was just what his question meant to me.
Clothes have so much more meaning than just that jeans or shirt we put on.
I think that is a truth we should know.
An awareness where we can change something for ourselves.
Perhaps even for the world around us.
An unknown responsibility where we can take matters in our hands.
For the better of society of course.
And when it comes to that question of how he can get a girl.
Although it is a question that makes sense, since all these girls are just right there.
Wearing what they feel like wearing.
Appropriate for the time of year, spring and summer.
But since he asked me that question.
I think I am just going to answer it.
My answer would be : ‘I don’t think he should be asking that question’.
‘No’.
It is some advice I’d like to share to get a better perspective.
For him to move forward in this situation.
Perhaps he could wear something different that he is wearing instead, since we know now that the clothes we wear have an effect on others.
By changing his looks from the outside, he could see if the girls he was looking at would be looking at him.
Wouldn’t that be amazing?
I think yes.
A reversed approach would be the answer.
And if these girls wouldn’t look at him (still), it is just their loss.
The end.