It is those words we tell ourselves, about others.
That can keep us stabilized in a place.
Where we might not want to be.
Single and alone as an example.
It is the story we keep repeating what we think and like.
In silence, when we fall asleep.
Perhaps even when we sit with those people, who are in that relationship.
Where we think we are so much smarter and we would never do anything like that.
How stupid they are and that we never want that kind of relationship.
Just saying the words, to make it clear.
True is not the right word, since we can not tell.
It is not our story, not our love life.
Instead of saying what we think. What we think is happening.
What kind of relationship these people are having.
We know now that this is not true.
Since it is not our story, not our love life.
And that is the judgement we need to make.
We need to say that it is not our story, not our love life.
Where everything stays to those in that kind of relationship.
Where it belongs.
When understanding what this means.
It opens up for ourselves, perhaps that relationship that is for us.
That story of your love life.