I want to clarify some things about the female being.
Perhaps I am becoming a feminist, or something I already was.
Now it is just ready to be blooming.
I was watching some content, that brought this to my surface.
There was this women, who was sitting on a chair.
She said, “When you meet someone for the first time, there are two things that can leave an impression”.
“The first is how you look”.
“The second is when you speak”.
As clear as this is already, the thing is that people have no idea what this really means.
Especially women.
There are so many beautiful women out there, but as soon as they say something, my toes cringle.
This is soft to say.
I am not here to tell how that is to be done, speaking.
Perhaps it is just about an awareness that needs to be known.
Rather to know that looks and speech are connected with impressions, but to understand that it is about self worth and that we have a choice.
The choice on how we look and what we can say.
I am speaking here about women, I hope this makes sense.
Because what I have come to know is that we (not only women) speak without thinking.
The result it things are said we don’t necessarily need to be hearing.
A simple silent, will do the trick, to close off our senses and follow what comes next.
Although this came to the surface from my feminine perspective, it is as a society as a whole, we need to learn how to speak properly.