The story of the princess and the ring of love is about finding that love that fits your standard and lives up to your expectation.
Whatever that might be.
Author: Lakshmi
The only thing matters is that you love yourself
So that is what I did.
To find back what was mine.
Even though sometimes not knowing what that was.
The same thing as what I am doing now.
In providing this answer of who it is I am.
It is the world inside ourselves that gives this stability.
Even when we are not aware.
But it doesn’t matter.
The only thing that matters is that you love yourself.
What is a love relationship?
I believe a question nobody really thinks about.
At least I never spent any second thinking of it.
Until it came my way.
When I was thinking about it for the first time I realized it is something we take for granted.
Perhaps that is a bit too harsh to say.
I mean, just that it is there, without really realizing what it means.
I think that is closer to reality.
How deep is your love?
I am just telling that story, my ears were hearing.
At the same time I was thinking.
‘How deep is that love?’
I don’t even know if that remains on the surface, but I think we can at least say that this isn’t a form of love.
If you would ask me at least.
Perhaps it has to do with the tides of the ocean.
It comes and goes.
Like those girls, it is easy for these boys to catch them like that.
Surfing those waves.
I didn’t write it down like this on purpose, but it could be a form of truth.
Not a blame I am putting out there.
It could be the match they are making.
Is love something average?
When you understand these are average places, that are meeting that standard of meeting someone, it would be a better question to ask, ‘am I looking for something average? And is average something that I am?’
Where to find love?
Where to find someone outside a dating app?
It is a question I have been asking myself.
Not just lately, but it has been coming back more and more in recent days.
I have wondered already for a long time.
What are the options when it comes to finding someone?
Perhaps even when it comes to love.
But that part of love of is not necessary for me to answer.
In general I am curious and would like to know what else is there, when it comes to meeting someone.
Is love to take a leap of faith or a quantum leap?
To say there are different ways to make this inner reality come to the surface, to make this quantum leap, forward movement for ourselves to progress.
We need to heal, let go and lose that weight. To find those perspectives that will make us move fast forward. Not because we want that, but because that is necessary for us to live.
It brings me back to those stories I was writing about a boy that was staring deep in my eyes and I didn’t want to take that leap with him.
You can read them on my website : thelovejourneyoflakshmi.com
It makes me question.
Is love to take a leap of faith or a quantum leap?
A love spell
My vision when it comes to men is dark as days and I will tell you why.
They told me lies for their own sake.
Put blame on my shoulder, to avoid taking their responsibility.
Named me names and spread them for people to hear someone I wasn’t.
Went behind my back with another girl or tried to be with me while they were already involved.
Used me as a shield for their own protection.
Making me feel worthless by the words they used.
Touched me at places without my consent.
Walked away with my pride, to tell other people how great they were.
Then smiled at me, like nothing ever happened.
One punched me in the face, but I have to say he was gay.
The other thought it was ok to harass me, because he didn’t get his way.
Is love to meet halfway?
What I try to say with meeting halfway is to be aware that we don’t have to take things for granted as such. Don’t have to lower our standards for the sake of a relationship, marriage, someone else or even for ourselves.
That is not the point of meeting halfway.
To me meeting halfway is that yes, sometimes things can be a bit out of control and we don’t know exactly what is happening.
I guess that is the road that we should be taking. A path to follow. For us to know we would be meeting that significant other halfway of wherever we are going.
To know, it will happen someday in the future.
Pieces of love
But above all, expressing these pieces I see happening, writing it down, processing it for my mind to understand.
It is a way for me to continue on this road of love.
To see where this all is leading to.
Since that is the real journey.
Not knowing where you are going to, but to follow what we see and feel that is coming from inside.