The story I have in mind is about a guy who asked me a question.
He was happy it was spring, almost summer.
All the girls wearing their flesh.
Short skirts and shirts wouldn’t cover much.
Eye candy you can say it is, for the ones falling for that type.
While he was expressing what his eyes were seeing, I could understand what he was saying.
So much to look at, which made his head spin.
While he was speaking, he was happy to see all he was seeing.
Shortly after expressing that question to me.
“How can I get a girl?
It caught me a bit off guard, I have to admit.
He said it, like it was nothing.
The question itself made so much sense.
From a boy’s perspective to solve this problem he was having.
Also in general to see all that low hanging fruit, which for some is unreachable.
Although it was there, he was unable to reach.
Where he popped his question and made it, expressing what he wanted to say.
It made me wonder, perhaps even questioning myself.
‘Do we actually know what effect we have on others, by the clothes we are wearing?’
We know the way we dress can say something, whatever it has to be seen at that moment.
There is no secret.
Politicians wearing specific colors to bring forward their statement.
The gay community wearing all their colors to express what they want to say.
Work uniforms to make notice who is in front of us.
Protective gear to make sure we don’t suffer too much from a fall or anything else which can be a danger to us.
It was interesting to me, apart from that question he asked.
How he was able to get a girl.
To become aware the clothes we wear apparently do have an effect.
The standard of exposure was doing something to this boy.
What that is, I can’t say specifically.
I am not the person having this problem.
Just making notice this is something happening.
A way for this boy to keep looking at these girls, which in a way was making him happy.
Even though he didn’t know how to approach them.
It was just what his question meant to me.
Clothes have so much more meaning than the jeans or shirt we put on.
I think a truth we should know.
An awareness where we can change something for ourselves.
Perhaps even for the world around us.
An unknown responsibility where we can take matters in our hands.
For the better of society of course.
To come back to that question, how he can get a girl.
Although it is a question making sense, since all these girls were right there.
Wearing what they felt wearing, appropriate for the time of year.
But since he asked me that question, I think I am just going to answer it.
My answer would be : ‘I don’t think you should be asking that question’.
‘No’.
It is some advice I’d like to share to get a better perspective, for him to move forward with this situation.
Perhaps he could wear something different he is wearing instead, since we know now the clothes we wear have an effect on others.
By changing his looks, he could see if the girls he was looking at would be looking at him.
Wouldn’t that be amazing?
A reversed approach would be my answer.
If these girls wouldn’t look at him still, it is just their loss.
The end.