When it comes to men, I think the guys that fall for me are quite simple.
And the question is of course, is there any attraction the other way around.
Not to put any blame, just not discarding here my own responsibility.
Opposites attract perhaps?
What else could it really be?
But enough about that.
I live by ‘everything happens for a reason’.
To say that I can learn something from it and when fully grown to share it.
And that said, perhaps it has nothing to do with the knowledge and intelligence of these men, but just some inner being or inner calling.
Nothing they can really do about.
Just to say.
It can be so much more.
Perhaps this is their way of saying, they want to be with me.
Let’s not forget that boys are just stupid and don’t know how to express their feelings.
I think this is something legitimate and with this thought I can rest and fall asleep in peace.
What I have come to understand about the men that I have been with, is that they start with aiming for that one thing.
To end up in bed.
The start of their being, according to me.
Now I think about it.
Perhaps this is just my own female perspective.
That has grown, to think this is something simple.
But perhaps it is just their male instinct, to be wanting this, to start with.
Because they don’t know how else it could be.
As I have of course also had other experiences with men.
I think what attracts me the most is not so much someone gentle and kind, in touch with his feminine side or someone mature, perhaps even more alpha.
Not to say that I have had them all, but sure, these are things that I have seen and some even experienced.
But as some of the men that I have met, aim for starting in the bed and having all their ways set to be doing just that.
I don’t think that is something I want.
For me, what turns me on is the hunting game.
To know that boys will be just boys, but a real man will come get me.