I was going through my pictures on my phone, saw some video’s I once made.
One was when I was celebrating my 37th birthday.
A little game I played, with people I once knew.
It was actually a drinking game, where questions were asked.
We had to drink at some point, we laughed a lot.
Something I heard, when watching another video.
It was said the older you get, it is more difficult to be able to find love.
A woman was making that remark, however I didn’t take it personally.
Although it is thought for women who are getting older it is more difficult to be able to find love.
I believe because they have a clock.
To me it is making an assumption. Opposing problems to women, problems who are not necessarily there.
For starters, not all women want to have children.
I believe these kind of remarks have been said for a long time.
We have started to believe, whenever we are getting older, it is harder to find love.
The thing I want to express is the older we get it doesn’t mean finding love is more difficult.
To me, thinking otherwise is negative thinking, perhaps even a sign of depression.
Whenever we think in this way we surpass what we really want and what matters.
I don’t think love is about being single, engaged or even being married.
Where we need to have children at a certain age, or else we would miss the boat.
I have no idea what boat that is.
If there is a boat in the first place I wouldn’t want to reach that destination.
Missing something doesn’t sound appealing to me.
I’d rather have something resourceful and abundant.
If you want to know in which boat I am sitting, you know where to find me.
It is about the understanding whenever we get older it really doesn’t mean finding love is more difficult.
Whenever we think like this, we release this burden on our shoulders, unblocking us from love.
This is for men, women and people in general.
I don’t want to make a point, just to say I believe love isn’t more difficult when getting older.