Because honestly, I don’t think it is a test of love as such.
To me the test of love is to overcome some hurdles in ourselves to know if we are ready for that kind of love commitment.
It is a journey inward.
Let me say it like this, whenever there is a test coming, it is to know we are already there.
Just that we need this test to lock it in our mind, perhaps the heart of anything else that needs that kind of confirmation. That is what a test of love to me is about.
Perhaps just a confirmation of love.
A test is not a burden nor something we have to face, but just to know where we are at that moment in time. To see where we are going and what needs to be done.
There is no failure, perhaps not even a success, since that is not the objective.
It is just to see where you are.
And that can be anything.
A place in ourselves, or one that we understand.
A feeling or thoughts, perhaps something real.
It could all be.
The only thing that remains is what is important for us to know at that moment of the test.