I saw a video on Facebook several times.
The explanation of love language and even examples.
It was presented in a stand up show, a bit different as I have been seen before.
However, something was missing.
It felt poor to me.
Poor in the explanation and the examples.
My mind started to wonder.
I even felt it a little bit spinning.
It is nice to know these types of languages are connected to love and it is good to see how to recognize them in our own daily reality.
The richness is understanding these 5 types of love language and to bend it for our own good and the people around us that we love.
Perhaps even to the ones we don’t love.
Understanding is one thing, the next step is to allow it to make it something sustainable for those who are not privileged to understand it in that way.
Practising it and showing it to those to grow further, for everyone involved.
For me this is what love is all about, truly.
It is just my belief of a better way, perhaps even the best way of sustaining this language.
I accept your gift, the sweater you gave me, because it matters that you put the time and effort to look for it. Eventhough I can smell it has been laying on the shelf for many months.
I hold your hand to let that girl know that you are taken, because you can’t seem to get over her.
She would know you moved on, so it will allow you time and space to heal.
I am just really nobody.
What I am saying is that this language doesn’t stop there with the knowing and the explanations of just words and examples of reality.
It has to become reality, to elevate and sustain.
I hope this makes sense.